Have you ever considered writing a letter to the baby that you are longing to have in your life?
This is a great manifestation tool for women who are on a fertility journey.
The process of writing a letter to your future child in the present tense is signalling to your brain that this is something that is happening.
Plan a time to do this.
Make yourself a nice environment. Perhps burn some essential oils such as tangerine or peppermint. Play some ambient music. Get a cup of tea.
Ground your energy for 5 -10 mins by placing your hands on your womb, closing your eyes and deep breathing into your womb. Set your intention to dive deep into your soul and tell your womb your highest intentions and ask what you need to write.
Then just start writing.
Allow the words to just flow from you without any judgement. You can go back and correct grammar afterwards. Just allow the words to flow. Allow yourself to dream and write exactly what your intentions are and about the family you are bringing your soul baby into.
Write from the heart.
Here is the letter that I wrote just before my first and only egg donor transfer in October 2016.
I wrote some affirmations at the end of the letter also that really helped to keep my mind and heart in a positive state.
A letter to my daughter Maya
Baby Maya I call you into my womb and into and into my heart.
The beautiful soul that I long to cherish always, to guide, to protect and learn from.
I wish you a life full of love, happiness and learning.
I wish you to be continuously evolving and living life to the very fullest and to use this lifetime to learn and clear what you need to and for us all to learn from one another and to love one another.
Your father is a beautiful man who is gentle, kind and very clever.
He has a quirky sense of humour and loves to help people.
He loves children and I cannot wait to see his face when he first learns that you have landed safely in my womb, when he sees my tummy start to grow, when he sees your heart beat on the scan, when he feels you kick for the first time and we eagerly await your arrival.
The moment that I birth you into this world will be the most sacred experience of our life. We will weep tears of joy and wonder to see you for the first time.
In the moment that you are born our life will make total sense.
We have waited many years to find one another and then to find you.
Our fertility journey took us on a road of learning where we realised that we needed a donor and every second has been a wonderful gift of learning, of strength and has bonded us closer together.
It has made us realise what amazing people there are on this planet that are willing to give part of themselves in order to bring the souls into this world that need to be born no matter what.
I will move mountains for you and have already strived to get this far to bring you into this world.
You are very loved and very wanted.
We will care for your every need and cherish you with awareness, gratitude and consciousness of our every word and action.
You will join a beautiful family with my brother who will love you to bits and be such a protector for you. He is big and strong and will delight in holding you and in turn you will melt his heart.
You also have some beautiful cousins Anthony is only a year older and Tess 2 years older. Their parents are your Uncle Drew and aunty Marie who are adorable.
You have a Nanna my beautiful mum Heather, Grandpa John and Deans adorable parents Grandma Barbara and Grandad Peter.
You will be the first grandchild to Heather and John ( her loving partner) and my goodness they will spoil you rotten!!
They will more than likely move continents on your arrival as they will not want to miss out on any of your journey.
You will be sooo cherished.
Barbara and Peter are beautiful souls and will be overjoyed to meet you.
Their grandchildren are overseas and so they will be delighted to see you in Brisbane and you never know they may even get them to travel to Sydney!
You will be christened by Grandad Peter who is a minister and married your parents. He is 87 years old and very wise and full of life.
Grandma Barbara is very creative and has already made a fairy glenn in her garden that you will delight in.
You will also have lots of “aunties” “uncles” and cousins that are local to you that may not be your blood relatives but will love you very much and be part of your life every day.
I choose the name Maya for you as it is a feminine and powerful name. She is the earth goddess, goddess of fertility, your name has so many spiritual meanings and resonates with love, earth power and spirit.
BABY MAYA O’CONNOR I WELCOME YOU IN TO MY WOMB AND INTO YOUR SOUL FAMILY IN OCTOBER
I TRUST MY WOMB SHE HOLDS POWER & WISDOM TO NOURISH AND GROW YOU
I CALL MY SOUL FAMILY TO PREPARE FOR LIFE IN MY WOMB AND A DAUGHTER TO DEAN AND I.
I LOVE AND TRUST MY BODY TO BE READY FOR PREGNANCY AND BIRTH
I AM A VERY CAPABLE AND LOVING MOTHER
I AM GRATEFUL FOR MY JOURNEY AND EXCITED ABOUT MEETING MY DAUGHTER SOON
WE ARE A LOVING FAMILY AND READY TO RECEIVE OUR DAUGHTER WITH OPEN ARMS AND OPEN HEARTS
Following my donor egg transfer in October 2017 I found out in early November that
I was pregnant with twins.
Unfortunately only one heartbeat remained by week 10. I had a healthy pregnancy and now have a very healthy son.
I didn’t have a baby girl. But I am so in love with my baby boy.
Sometimes the universe delivers a little suprise for you.
Don’t give up on your dreams.
Miracles can happen. They did for me.